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		<title>By: olivia</title>
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		<dc:creator>olivia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 10:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that onion article is awesome. i found my current job through a friend of a friend, kinda; or really, someone i'd met in sri lanka briefly, didn't remember well (drinking does that), met for coffee in london, mentioned where i was doing my internship, and she invited me to apply for a closed-application job here. which is a cool job, but i'm not sure it's perfect (what ever is), and now i want to move to nyc or beirut.

anyway. i think most people get jobs through people they know, and that's fine because to get that job, you're competing with other people who might be there because of contacts they have, too. you still have to do the app, make a cv, do the interview, etc. etc. 

but it's really annoying to try to find a new job, but i also think it's a time of immense hope. like picking out classes for a new semester, except those classes have to like you back. or something.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that onion article is awesome. i found my current job through a friend of a friend, kinda; or really, someone i&#8217;d met in sri lanka briefly, didn&#8217;t remember well (drinking does that), met for coffee in london, mentioned where i was doing my internship, and she invited me to apply for a closed-application job here. which is a cool job, but i&#8217;m not sure it&#8217;s perfect (what ever is), and now i want to move to nyc or beirut.</p>
<p>anyway. i think most people get jobs through people they know, and that&#8217;s fine because to get that job, you&#8217;re competing with other people who might be there because of contacts they have, too. you still have to do the app, make a cv, do the interview, etc. etc. </p>
<p>but it&#8217;s really annoying to try to find a new job, but i also think it&#8217;s a time of immense hope. like picking out classes for a new semester, except those classes have to like you back. or something.</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 11:44:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is so funny.  I was having coffee in Zabar's (!!) earlier this week and saw a woman reading a hardcopy of The Onion with that headline.  I thought about it for maybe 2.4 seconds and then returned to the very important matter of my cherry danish.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is so funny.  I was having coffee in Zabar&#8217;s (!!) earlier this week and saw a woman reading a hardcopy of The Onion with that headline.  I thought about it for maybe 2.4 seconds and then returned to the very important matter of my cherry danish.</p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 02:41:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>try being a female preacher who looks 13 years old.  it only gets worse.

i got my job cuz my friend got a job at a church in austin and i moved to austin cuz it seemed cool and i was bored.  then i started going to that church and that church met in the building of another church and somehow i met that pastor...

relationships are good.  both ones that land you jobs and ones that land you love.  unfortunately, on both ends, they are few and far between.  but keep on keepin' on cuz if you don't get a job, it's the relationships you have that will get you through it.  

and eventually you'll find an organization that knows an organization and the rest of that will be history too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>try being a female preacher who looks 13 years old.  it only gets worse.</p>
<p>i got my job cuz my friend got a job at a church in austin and i moved to austin cuz it seemed cool and i was bored.  then i started going to that church and that church met in the building of another church and somehow i met that pastor&#8230;</p>
<p>relationships are good.  both ones that land you jobs and ones that land you love.  unfortunately, on both ends, they are few and far between.  but keep on keepin&#8217; on cuz if you don&#8217;t get a job, it&#8217;s the relationships you have that will get you through it.  </p>
<p>and eventually you&#8217;ll find an organization that knows an organization and the rest of that will be history too.</p>
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		<title>By: jessica</title>
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		<dc:creator>jessica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 22:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is kind of funny: i had a dream last night that i was in some place... i don't remember what kind of place or anything. something about college. anyway, i remember thinking, i need to call sarah. she would love working here. i also thought, wow, sarah would be such an asset to this place.

it was pretty weird and hilarious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is kind of funny: i had a dream last night that i was in some place&#8230; i don&#8217;t remember what kind of place or anything. something about college. anyway, i remember thinking, i need to call sarah. she would love working here. i also thought, wow, sarah would be such an asset to this place.</p>
<p>it was pretty weird and hilarious.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 16:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, cold turkey CV-schlepping...

My best (most fun, anyway) job was at Magma books in Manchester.  When I first moved there I was unemployed for TWO MONTHS, the only job I had was hanging out at the Chinese Arts Centre on Sundays.  For twenty pounds sterling.  I was living on twenty pounds sterling a week.

I just couldn't get a break with the Chinese stuff.  I looked online, I went in and talked directly to people whose job it is to find young professionals jobs, I walked into stores in Chinatown and made an eejit of myself speaking in Mandarin to teenagers who only spoke English and Cantonese.

When I walked into Magma I didn't even know it was a bookshop but it looked cool... I had abandoned Chinese language work but hadn't got to the stage where I would work in a Wetherspoons.  I went in, handed in my CV, and had a nice chat with two people, one of whom turned out to be the co-owner.  He was minutes away from putting up a help wanted sign when I walked in.

I still had to interview but I got the job.  In fact, they offered me a higher position in London, which would have been awesome.  So, there you go.  It was a mix of luck and perseverance, but crucially, it took forever dude.

There. I wasn't being completely self-indulgent I hope!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, cold turkey CV-schlepping&#8230;</p>
<p>My best (most fun, anyway) job was at Magma books in Manchester.  When I first moved there I was unemployed for TWO MONTHS, the only job I had was hanging out at the Chinese Arts Centre on Sundays.  For twenty pounds sterling.  I was living on twenty pounds sterling a week.</p>
<p>I just couldn&#8217;t get a break with the Chinese stuff.  I looked online, I went in and talked directly to people whose job it is to find young professionals jobs, I walked into stores in Chinatown and made an eejit of myself speaking in Mandarin to teenagers who only spoke English and Cantonese.</p>
<p>When I walked into Magma I didn&#8217;t even know it was a bookshop but it looked cool&#8230; I had abandoned Chinese language work but hadn&#8217;t got to the stage where I would work in a Wetherspoons.  I went in, handed in my CV, and had a nice chat with two people, one of whom turned out to be the co-owner.  He was minutes away from putting up a help wanted sign when I walked in.</p>
<p>I still had to interview but I got the job.  In fact, they offered me a higher position in London, which would have been awesome.  So, there you go.  It was a mix of luck and perseverance, but crucially, it took forever dude.</p>
<p>There. I wasn&#8217;t being completely self-indulgent I hope!</p>
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		<title>By: Meredith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Meredith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 14:49:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Up until my last two jobs, every job I've ever gotten has been because I know someone who got me an interview. But hey, *I* mastered the interview, so there's nothing wrong with that, right?

I got the Theatre &#38; Dance job by utterly scouring the UT job search website and adjusting my cover letter and resume to apply for about 50 jobs. Most of which paid in the upper 30s, and the only one that interviewed and then hired me paid $24k. But I got to meet you, Sarah, and that's worth its weight in reasonable compensation!

My job at the museum was a total fluke. I'd been in Houston a couple of weeks and decided to work some temp jobs while I did my "real" job searching. I told the temp agency I was interested in arts administration, they called me the day after I signed up with them to tell me there was an opening in the director's office at the MFAH, I was here two days and they hired me in a permanent capacity. Kismet!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Up until my last two jobs, every job I&#8217;ve ever gotten has been because I know someone who got me an interview. But hey, *I* mastered the interview, so there&#8217;s nothing wrong with that, right?</p>
<p>I got the Theatre &amp; Dance job by utterly scouring the UT job search website and adjusting my cover letter and resume to apply for about 50 jobs. Most of which paid in the upper 30s, and the only one that interviewed and then hired me paid $24k. But I got to meet you, Sarah, and that&#8217;s worth its weight in reasonable compensation!</p>
<p>My job at the museum was a total fluke. I&#8217;d been in Houston a couple of weeks and decided to work some temp jobs while I did my &#8220;real&#8221; job searching. I told the temp agency I was interested in arts administration, they called me the day after I signed up with them to tell me there was an opening in the director&#8217;s office at the MFAH, I was here two days and they hired me in a permanent capacity. Kismet!</p>
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		<title>By: Jen K.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jen K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 14:33:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If we only knew in high school what we know now.  Can you imagine the laughs we got after we left?  Funny thing is that my mom thinks you can actually still get a job by dropping off your resume in person!

Things certainly have changed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If we only knew in high school what we know now.  Can you imagine the laughs we got after we left?  Funny thing is that my mom thinks you can actually still get a job by dropping off your resume in person!</p>
<p>Things certainly have changed!</p>
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		<title>By: Brian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 03:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can relate to the job angst. I was angsting in a little procrastination driven bit of Instant Messanger pity at my desk this morning. My wife and I are hoping to move to Austin sometime after the first of the year and I've been starting to dig for design jobs. Even if I know that my portfolio is decent and that I have design skills that are pretty good there's still this fear that no one will ever hire me again. (irrational right? I wish my brain knew that. heh)

All of the jobs I've had (except for the month I worked at Old Navy) have basically been found through relationships. It's certainly easier being able to head to an interview and know that there's some sort of connection already there. 

I guess I'd just say to work it as hard as you can. Find people that can tear your resume apart as much as they can and build it back up into a really amazing document. You could always start a separate blog that deals with what your masters is in and start trying to build up a community of people through that. Build something up big enough and gain enough notoriety and it certainly couldn't hurt your career aspirations. 

In the Poshdeluxe Bookclub category, I just got done listening to an audio book on my way back and forth from work called The Power of Nice. Might be worth grabbing from the library. There was some helpful business/job stuff in it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can relate to the job angst. I was angsting in a little procrastination driven bit of Instant Messanger pity at my desk this morning. My wife and I are hoping to move to Austin sometime after the first of the year and I&#8217;ve been starting to dig for design jobs. Even if I know that my portfolio is decent and that I have design skills that are pretty good there&#8217;s still this fear that no one will ever hire me again. (irrational right? I wish my brain knew that. heh)</p>
<p>All of the jobs I&#8217;ve had (except for the month I worked at Old Navy) have basically been found through relationships. It&#8217;s certainly easier being able to head to an interview and know that there&#8217;s some sort of connection already there. </p>
<p>I guess I&#8217;d just say to work it as hard as you can. Find people that can tear your resume apart as much as they can and build it back up into a really amazing document. You could always start a separate blog that deals with what your masters is in and start trying to build up a community of people through that. Build something up big enough and gain enough notoriety and it certainly couldn&#8217;t hurt your career aspirations. </p>
<p>In the Poshdeluxe Bookclub category, I just got done listening to an audio book on my way back and forth from work called The Power of Nice. Might be worth grabbing from the library. There was some helpful business/job stuff in it.</p>
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